The Social Media Alphabet of Qualities that Build Relationships

Do you have the personality for using social media to market your business?

The social Media Alphabet of Qualities that build Relationships

It’s NOT Crazy to Use Social Media for Marketing Your Business

Do you have what it takes to make a success of it? Does it feel too confusing? Too complicated? Are you afraid to put yourself out there because you don’t know which conversations to jump into, let alone how to do it?

Social media is all about building relationships with people in your community.

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It’s about being sociable, being pleasant, being helpful, and being visible. It’s about remembering that you’re dealing with real people and you want to treat them like you want to be treated.

You also need a basic knowledge of whom is using each networking platform. For example, you’ll want to use a more professional tone on LinkedIn, while you can be more relaxed (but not too relaxed) on Facebook.

If you approach social media marketing from a selling perspective, you will repel people. Because, while people love to buy things, they don’t want to feel like they’re being pushed into buying from you.

While social media is “organic”, meaning you don’t pay for it like you do when you purchase advertising, it does cost you in time, energy, and commitment.

If you’re going to do social media marketing correctly, you must set up a schedule to do it consistently! This is absolutely key to your success!

With this few things in mind, I’d like to introduce you to…

The Social Media Alphabet of Qualities that Build Relationships

What was the first thing we learned in school that made it possible to learn everything else?

The Music to the Alphabet Song“A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Now I know my ABC’s. Next time won’t you sing with me.”

That’s right. You know the tune. It’s stuck with you throughout the years, hasn’t it?

Let’s have some fun!  Visit my Facebook Page and you’ll find The Social Media Alphabet of Qualities that Build Relationships – A is for ??? posted. Leave your comment of which quality, starting with the letter A, is especially needed for social media marketing success and comment why you think so. I’ll be waiting for you there!

the social media alphabet of qualities that build relationships on Facebook

icon_winkThanks to Kim Garst of Boom Social! Her recent webinar: 27 Killer Facebook Post Ideas for Entrepreneurs sparked my creative genius.

21 Replies to “The Social Media Alphabet of Qualities that Build Relationships”

    • Hi Katarina, Great to connect with you. Funny you should mention strategy and plan…guess what’s coming after the alphabet???

  1. I love fun and interactive posts. Looking forward to joining you on your FB page in January and seeing your ABC revealed… 🙂

  2. Love your message about whether or not a person is suited for social media…not everyone is (in my opinion). So many people don’t understand that social media marketing isn’t about posting sales and offers only. They don’t like that it takes time and relationship building. The alphabet idea is such a fun way to involve people, I’m sure it will be a big success!

  3. So true.. working in social media, like you.. it’s all about relationship building and many just don’t understand, it isn’t about promoting their biz 24/7!

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  5. A is for attitude. You can’t be negative on social media. You have to keep a positive, uplifting attitude. Complainers need not apply.

    • You’re right Carol. A positive attitude really is key…coming from the point of view of helping others. It gets rid of that icky selling feel, doesn’t it?

  6. I was just creating my social media schedule today. I think social media is for me, but admit the learning curve has been steep. Looking forward to it all feeling really natural!

    • Hi Brenda, When you find your style, your voice, you’ll finally feel comfortable with social media. It helps me to picture each person I connect with on social media as a friend coming to my house for a visit. That warmth will spill over into the words you choose.

    • Hi Krista, Thanks for taking the time to check out my blog post. I recognize you from you Mompreneur article! Kudos go to Kim for doing just a great webinar that it sparked the Facebook connection. Hope you can pop in and join in the fun on the 1st.

  7. It’s a very clever idea! Obviously you have figured out how to engage with people! It’s going to be interesting to travel through the alphabet with you. So I guess I’ll suggest “anticipation.”

    • I love it! Anticipation…thanks for joining in on the fun Beth. I can hardly wait to see what you come up with on the 1st of Jan.

  8. I am looking forward to unveiling the social media alphabet. Love your creativity and how you found a way to implement an idea. I am now going to your page to get acquainted & put in an A word. will also see you there on Jan 1.

    • Thanks Roslyn, I look forward to having fun with the alphabet. I know you’ll come up with some good words for our social media alphabet. See you on January 1.

  9. “A” is for automated tweets and posts through Hootsuite or similar service with real-time engagement in between the automated messages.

    • I’m with you Vickie on automation. I love Hootsuite. However, my Social Media A word is something different than that. Looking forward to everyone’s ideas. See you on Jan 1.

    • Thanks Sheryl, When I try to do stuffy fact-filled stuff I procrastinate. But making it fun gets it done! Social Media should be fun, because it’s connecting with great people. Looking forward to your comments on the alphabet.

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